I found this really great article on theknot.com website and I thought I would share!
Tips on writing your own vows!!
1. Get Clearance! Make sure you talk with your officiate will accept personalized vows.
2. Make a Plan! Talk with your fiancé and make sure you guys are on the same page! Fine out if you will write them together or separately and if you will show them to each other before the ceremony.
3. Create an Outline! Establish a structure that you will both stick to.
4. Cut it Down! Pick a length you will both stick to as well.
Here are a few ideas to get you started!
What did you think when you first saw him/her? Start from the beginning — you didn’t want to go out and now you’re grateful your friends dragged you out? How to use: When we met at __________, I knew __________.
Where do you see yourselves in 10 years? 20 years? 40 years? Go deeper than Happily married in a big house. What are your long-term hopes, dreams, and goals? How to use: I look forward to __________, laughing and __________ as we __________.